The Necessity of Choice

When I started learning about human trafficking, there was a lot I had to "un-learn" first. For starters, I never imagined that it happened in America, at least not frequently. I also had no idea being trafficked by a loved one is the norm. Then came the reality that trafficking victims often aren't held in any physical bonds but rather psychological ones. While it seems I've come a very long way, I also recognize that I have so much more to learn. I do that by reading articles, paying attention to the news, and attending anti-trafficking events or webinars. The other night, I attended a Human Trafficking 101 webinar presented by End Slavery Cincinnati, lead by their regional coalition specialist Bri Combs. Towards the end of the webinar, Bri said something that seems simple but absolutely rocked my world.

As she explained what End Slavery Cincinnati does for victims, she said that ESC does not simply swoop into potential trafficking situations like knights on horses to rescue everyone. "People seem to think that people being trafficked are just waiting around for a rescue, but that's not really the case. They have to be ready to leave."

I've heard that phrase a million times when it came to those struggling with drug addiction or other mental health issues. Nobody can force someone else to change in those situations, and the same goes for many human trafficking situations. As I mentioned above, trafficking is a very psychological crime that includes forging a bond with people before trafficking them. It means creating a situation where the victim is so vulnerable that escaping would put them in a very precarious position. No matter how toxic a case may be, it can be difficult to leave what is known.

As we all proceed in our anti-trafficking advocacy journeys, this is imperative to keep in mind. Free of judgment, free of pressure, victims must be ready to leave on their own. And we should be ready and willing to help when they do.